I am a health educator, writer, and mom of three kids.

Originally from Vancouver, Canada, I completed a degree in women’s studies there before moving to New York and doing a master’s in health and human sexuality education at New York University.

My career has included a stint at Manhattan's Museum of Sex, developing sex education in Mumbai, India, spearheading an HIV prevention program in the South Bronx, teaching at Rutgers in Newark, NJ, and working with Planned Parenthood.

These days, I run a middle and high school health education program and teach in the health & nutrition sciences department at Brooklyn College.

You can see my recent articles in the Washington Post and HuffPost. Plus, I answer questions on the okayso app. Over the years I have also written for a range of publications. I was a contributing writer for Everyday Feminism, edited About.com's LGBT teens site, wrote for Daily Worth, and penned a sex education column for teens for gURL.com. Many of my pieces can now be found at Rewire News.

Much of my writing is related to health and sexuality (both of the adolescent and the adult variety), and some of it is about my experiences parenting and dealing with the sudden death of my big kids’ dad. You can read many of my pieces about all of this stuff here.

Because I wanted to put of a lot of my ideas in one place, I'll have a book Good Sexual Citizenship: How to Create a (Sexually) Safer World coming out with Cleis Press in September of 2019! (Preorder here).

I also run workshops for parents, educators, middle and high schoolers, and college students. Among other things I cover talking to kids about sex, puberty, consent, sexual violence, sexual health, community building, gender, and sexual orientation.

Contact me at ellenkatef@gmail.com if you are interested in a workshop or presentation or have something you think I’d like to write about!

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